How the Guy Gets Girl

The world of seduction is not as easy as it sounds, especially if you are not born with those assets needed to survive in this world or to seduce successfully. While men tend to get carried away with bootylicious gals, girls are more into that skin deep attraction. Usually it is not what is seen in the naked eyes that matter most to girls but it is that charisma and aura that the guy exudes that makes him more attractive. Others may also find the guy attractive if he owns that latest BMW or that guy who has distinct mysterious characteristic like Edward Cullins. If you have ever seen Formula One supremo Bernie Ecclestone with wife Slavica, you would say I am perfectly correct. In other words, getting a girl is not like changing your underwear unless it is the girls who make the move of sticking with you. On another thought, most guys or hotties that have dated a lot of girls have no lasting relationship and that is still a dilemma. You will grow old and there will always come a time that you need to choose that certain mate to grow old with you.  So how does the situation guy gets girl happen?

Firstly, it doesn’t matter who you are and what you do as long as you dress neatly and appear clean and fresh, you can always get a girl’s attention. It doesn’t mean that because girls consider a guy’s attractiveness in another perspective you just go out with messy hair or stinky pits. First impressions last and also it’s the appearance that girls first notice so take that into consideration. Ugly guys actually make their selves beautiful by carrying their selves properly and looking fresh and clean always. Even Brad Pitt with disheveled hair and an absurd beard still got negative criticisms from the media and to think he is one hot daddy. Furthermore, really good cologne helps. There are actually a lot of colognes that are best for seduction and flirting. Just make sure you choose something that fits your personality, your style, and your body chemistry. Data shows that the leading cologne for seduction is Black Jeans by Versace due to its masculine and fruity scent.

Braggarts have foul breath. No matter how many bottles of breath fresheners or mouthwash you have applied, given your swanky attitude, you are bound to fail and be forever alone. No girl can ever stand a guy’s boastfulness. When making a conversation, do not always make yourself a topic. Listen to the girl’s points and be thoughtful about it. Answer sensibly and please do not enumerate your plasma TVs even if you have tons of them when you are not asked to.

Praise her. Complement her look unless it is monstrous. A lot of marriage failure is due to lack of appreciation, which apparently also applies to those who want to get a mate. Sincere and truthful appreciation lifts a girl’s spirit. Girls do not only want to have fun but also wants to be appreciated in whatever they do or look. Take note that it takes hours for girls to get dressed and your compliment could surely make the tedious time of dressing worthwhile.

Sometimes the way through a guy’s heart is through his stomach. On the other hand, the way to a girl’s heart is through humor and if you are a good conversationalist that is a plus in attracting a girl. No girl can ever stand a date that is silent the whole time. It spells boring and she’ll never come near you the second time.

Flirt. By flirting it means making eye contact especially when you are talking to her. Smiling also wins a girl’s heart. The more you talk to her, the less tense you will become. Do not make butterflies in your stomach obvious too.

Once you have already made friends with her, tell her that you like her. Make it casual. Just don’t pop the statement during your first conversation with her. Show her that you value her. Girls love to feel valued and important. This would surely draw her closer to you.

Once you get your girl, treasure her. Never make a move that will ruin your relationship. Be honest all the time. Be naughty and nice at the same time to add spice to your relationship and make it lasting. In the end, it is not the all the time that the face and the body matters but the personality and the chemistry of the guy and girl as well.